Being gay is not a choice...

If I have to hear that being gay is a choice one more time...I'm going to snap! How is it a choice? While going through puberty, or whenever you understood what attraction was, did you find yourself attracted to both genders? Did you make the conscience decision to be with your own gender or the opposite? If being gay was a choice, why would you choose it? So that you could have your rights taken away? So that you could be ridiculed, kicked out of your house, abused, beaten, murdered? I don't think so. Lets use some logic people. I know it's hard, but please try.